Yes! the word ‘Ghosting’ might make some of you google it. For those who don’t know what it means, Ghosting simply means ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication.
According to scientific studies of psychological research, it affects your mental health very negatively. A victim of Ghosting might feel rejected and their social life deteriorates. But to be on the safer side, you can always know and prepare yourself for it. Here are some of the telltale signs if your partner is Ghosting on you.
- They Forget You Called or Texted
They have you on the back burner so sometimes they get back to you, giving all those lame excuse for why they couldn’t call or text you back. It’s just that they only talk to you when it suits them, so better don’t fall for the reasons.
2. Short Conversations and Lack of Interest
If your love talks are not interesting anymore and they try to cut the conversation short, it is a probable sign. What has changed? Again don’t pay heed to the excuses for the same and try to put a patch on it.
3. They Go Silent On Social Media
It is said that sign of a healthy relationship is no show offs on social media. Some of them are fond of keeping it socially open and it’s completely fine. But if they used to be active on your Instagram or Facebook and have stopped doing it suddenly, you can expect a bad surprise.
4. They Cancel Plans Frequently
You might get ghosted anytime if your partner is cancelling your plans to hangout together. Your plan can be anything from watching a movie together to just hanging out in some beautiful place. Now, if they always have a reason to cancel it, it’s high time to re-check.
Ghosting by someone you are truly into can break you mentally and physically too. But knowing the signs will prepare you for when it happens. Taking control over such situation and ending it on your terms is better than waiting for your partner to just disappear.